2019. 3. 29. · 2. Get comfortable with being alone. Your feelings of wanting to reconnect may stem from your not knowing how to be alone. Take some time. As soon as you begin to have feelings for another person, tell your partner, even if this disclosure causes you pain, embarrassment, or discomfort. Have long conversations with your spouse. Expect. 2 hours ago, salparadise said: Your demand to be respected is part of your battle against low self-esteem, and you consider her tardiness to be a personal affront. Of course you have the right to cut her out of your life, but what you should realize is that this reaction is mostly about how you f.